Instant intimacy. Yes we are talking sex, we are talking deep dark secrets, we are talking about skipping important steps in a relationship. You will find in your personal ad dating career, it is much easier to get to a comfort level with someone quickly.

Ever had sex on a first date? No? don’t go on a date with someone just because you have known them online for a month, unless their prifile told you they like easy sex and you agreed.

I do not like to allow a person to know everything about me very quickly, it is just how I am, so when I meet someone through a personals ad, I am careful to make sure I still keep my rules for a first date. I still keep some things in reserve. This is still dating and personals ads do not remove the rules of engagement.

Make sure you speak on the phone a few times before meeting up. Remember, the rules remain the same. Someone gives you their phone number in a club, you will speak a few times on the phone before you agree to have dinner, right? The online dating world goes the same path.

Successful relationships go through different stages or steps. Your personals ad was the ice breaker, your profile was your basic resume, and your words are who you are. Now you’re on the date, remain you, your personals ad deserves it, and so do you!

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